5 rules for a successful courtship

I will give you, 5 rules for a successful courtship.

Avoid sex; If you want a successful courtship, avoid sex before marriage. You should avoid everything that will lure you to commit furnication.
Avoid romantic touches; save the romance for your marriage. When you are marry, you can then romance as much positively as possible. I don't say you should not be attracted or admire the one you love and want to marry, no, but, it should be done with discipline and respect.
Don't hide any of your secret from your courting partner; open up your pass to your courting partner, this is the time. Open up especially those ones that can cause problem to your marriage. If you had a baby in the past, let him or her know.
Avoid acting as a wife or husband in courtship or before married; as a wife to be, don't go to your husband's to be house to cook for him. Don't even carry food to him or go to wash his clothes for him. For God sake, is not yet your husband. Stop acting like a wife in courtship. Likewise the man, don't claim her as yours, if you have not paid her bride price. If the fiancé want to know if his fiancy can cook, let him visit her family house on special occasion. But then, there is still remedy if she really does not know how to cook. Provided the courtship parties love themselves.
Avoid pretence and be ready to learn; don't be pretentious in your courting, and be ready to accept correction and learn. Don't be too big for correction, proud to learn and unteachable in courtship. Use your getting to know yourself better in courtship as an avenue to explore that creative ability in you, positively. And accept each other they way you are, while been patient for change and growing in courtship, as well as in marriage.

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Be in control of your emotion

Don't allow emotion to be in charge of you in a serious relationship that can Iead to marriage. Emotion can make you not to face reality in your relationship. Imagine a relationship that can produce a sickler as a product and the doctor is telling you people that, this will be a problem, you people said we love each other let's go ahead with our life and marry. Not hearing the doctor, the church and ignoring the test result. You went ahead married and brought a child into this world to suffer, why? Is it what true love means? If you were born a sickler into this world how will you feel? Let's not allow our emotion to ride us in a good relationship. I thought if you allow your emotion to be in charge it becomes infatuation. Please let's allow knowledge to rule us in everything we do.

The place of your virginity, and virtue.

Let me start by defining dictionary wise, what virginity and virtue are. Virginity is the state of being a virgin. While virgin is a person who has never had sex. Virtue ( formal) dictionary meaning is behavior or attitudes that show high moral standards. From the above, you now know what virginity and virtue are. Now, the place of your virginity and virtue should be high. Don't joke with your virginity, take it serious. Don't allow someone who is not your partner, have sex with you. They only one permitted to break your virginity is your husband. Place your virginity in a place of value. Virtue is very important, even as a virgin. Your virginity is worthless without virtue. Another dictionary meaning of virtue is a particular good quality of habit. a woman of virtue is a woman of value and a woman of valuable possession. So, as a man, as a woman, develop a mindset of virtue. As a man you can be a virgin too. As a woman, don't put your trust on your virginity for marriage.

Breaking out when single

The best time to break out of addiction or addictions that can determine your marriage, is or are when you are still single. Am talking about addiction you formed before marriage. Habittual addictions like mastubation; driving sexual satisfaction by yourself, watching pornography and during process can mastubate, lust, deep lust, furnication; whether in the heart or in the physical, immoral pattern of thinking, whether sexual or wickedly etc, can destroy our lives and destinies. It can also destroy marriages. And that is why is best you need to seriously start working hard on yourself. You need to be determined to break out. God will help you, if you ask Him, but, you need to show God that you are ready to break out of that habit or habits. The person having that uncontrollable deep habitual addition of lust when single, whether acting openly or secretly, or boldly or timidly will still do it if married. And lust is a sin, but a sin can become habitual, and can also become ones charact

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